Boil 1 ⅔ cups of water in a saucepan and add the okra. Let it simmer at medium heat while stirring occasionally.
Remove from heat and cool. Store in a mason jar for one day.
Use a strainer cloth to separate the okra seeds from the slime. You should have about 1/2 a cup cup of okra slime.
Add 1/4 cup of oil to the okra. Whisk together until emulsified. Pour in a bottle. Shake well every time you use it and you okra leave-in conditioner is ready to use.